My opinion is that Asuras is the best place for you two (avoiding the true asuras ofc),
- Experience: over 4kk/h in green stamina (I do 6 in an rp 400 so...)
-Charms I use: Poison of midnight asuras and wound for Dawnfire asuras (freeze also would work)
-Equipment: Phisical protection imbuyed.
Ripper Spectres in the Buried Cathedral (outlaw camp), would be nice too, not full surounded
-Experience: Lower than asuras, but the place is always empty
-Charms: Fire/energy/wound charm for the rippers, and Wound/parry for the arachnophobics.
-Equipment: Phisical set/terra protection.**The spectres are almost inmune to phisical damage, so the exp you get depends of your druid's skills killing them.
-Set: protection terra
-Charms: Medusa/serpent spawn (fire/energy charm)
Roshamuul valley (hunting in a safe way, not full surounded, test your limits)
- Experience: similar to Buried Cathedral
-Set: phisical protection imbuyed + garlic necklaces always
-Charms: At your lvl I would use dodge for the frazzles, freeze in the silencers and wound/parry in the guzzles
Hope I helped